Khitbah.

For the proposal stage

Look for a spouse without being on display.

A private introduction service. No photos, no browsing, no open messaging - and nothing about you reaches anyone until you've said yes. Families take it from there.

Register a profile See how it works

What the other side sees

Profile

Not yet shared
Age
27
Area
Durban
Status
Single
Sector
Surti
Occupation
Foundation phase teacher
On living with in-laws
“Happy to, for the first while. Own place after that, in the same area.”
Name
Fatima
Contact
Given to both families

Only we can see this profile. It sits with us until there's someone worth proposing it to.

What we never do.

  • No photographsNot at registration, not at introduction, not ever.
  • No browsingThere is no gallery and no search. You are shown to one person at a time, and only after we've proposed it.
  • No open messagingNobody can message you. Questions and answers pass through us in both directions.
  • No ID documentsWe confirm you're real through your wali or a family contact instead.
  • Nothing publicThere is no listing to find, forward, or screenshot.

Who this is for

Anyone looking to marry - single, divorced or widowed - and families looking on someone's behalf.

Most people who come to us have already been through rounds of introductions that went nowhere, or have run out of people to ask. The point of the question stage is that you learn the things that actually matter before anyone sits in a lounge.

You can pause your profile at any time, and take it down for good whenever you want.

Register a profile.

The form takes about fifteen minutes. Nothing is visible to anyone else while we confirm the details with your family contact.

For yourself

You'll be asked for your details, what you're looking for, and a family contact who can confirm you're registering with their knowledge.

Start the form

For someone in your family

Register on their behalf. They'll need to confirm it themselves before the profile becomes active.

Start the form

We're starting with the first fifty profiles so that every one gets read properly. After that there's a waiting list.